Of course, everyone wants their child to ensure success in games and enhance their sports but this can eclipse the little one's performance.
Parents need to support the method, not the outcome. Instead of always centering on the result, parents should pay attention to helping their children develop their football skills and enjoy themselves.
Elitism has killed the game of youth sports. It is a term that's too common and used too often. The title Elite is often misused, unjustified and lacks supporting material.
The parents who are able to instill positive values and have exceptional parenting skills in their children are those that have made them great athletes and outstanding people. They are instrumental in helping young people achieve great success in many areas.
It is not a title, nor a term that you are considered elite at something. Being an Elite at something is not a title or a word.
How many times has it happened that parents or other adults behave badly during practice or on the touchline during matches? We must always remind ourselves and push ourselves to be the best parents we can for our children.
These are some of the tips, ideas and information we've gathered along the way, which might help you parents become elite football parents. '
POSITIVITY
Even if things go wrong, parents should praise their children and be positive. It is a great way for parents to support their children and can encourage them to be more positive.
Players can stay calm and focused while watching a game. It is better to support the child than shouting instructions from the sidelines. Instead, be calm and instructive.
Sometimes parents get too caught up in the excitement of the game and start to argue with their children and the coaches. This will not only distract the players, but it is also not healthy for your child's well-being and a bad example.
PLACE YOURSELF IN YOUR CHILD'S SHOES
Remember what it was like being a child.
Recall the support you provided for your child as an adult/parent.
Encourage positive attitudes and good sportsmanship.
Be aware that success and failure are both part of a child’s development.
Footballer first!
AT THE PRACTICE/PLAYING PITCHER
Help your child be a role model for others.
Applaud and encourage children's good behaviour, effort, and performance.
It's fun and your children will soon be adults. It's important that they enjoy it, not endure.
Don't get too focused on the end result of success, loss or winning. Focus your attention on the learning, development and small steps that lead to success.
Be supportive of the sideline, not criticize or commentator. Sometimes, enough is enough!
LISTENING EAR
It is crucial to share your thoughts on a game with children in order to support them in their football journey. It is crucial to have input on this reflection with your child. Parents can see the game from a different perspective. It is important to let your child reflect on what went well and what didn't.
Parents should listen to their children and offer their suggestions and input on how to improve.
THE JOURNEY HOME
Ask your child about their experience and get their feedback. Next, go on to the next practice.
It is normal for people to feel sad about losing but excited about winning.
Give feedback by highlighting 2-3 points you feel they did well.
Encourage their learning and communication with coaches, teachers, and fellow players. Help them take control of their football learning.
Ask them to take a note of any bad practice sessions and have them write it down before they go home to 'bin it. It's rubbish.
Don't forget that your child's sports success does not make them better parents or people.
Just be a little more patient with them and watch them grow, trust us, the more relaxed you are with them, the more eager they want to show you their progress. Football development is a long-term game, let's sit back and enjoy the long process!
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